Thirsty Thursday: The Wine Fest Edition

Happy {Thirsty} Thursday, peeps!

In case the marrrrrrrrgarita (roll those R’s, folks) talk on Tuesday wasn’t enough, I’m thinky drinky again today…for the record, it’s only a problem IF you admit that it is. But seriously, I don’t even drink all that much…which is probably why I was tipsy within the first 20 minutes of the wine festival I went to with my girls last weekend.
Note to self: “Pre-game” a week prior to next year’s festival. 😉

Wine Truth

Were truer words ever written?

We couldn’t have asked for better weather. The day was absolutely perfect. Blue skies, puffy clouds, pink elephants. Oh yeah, we had it all.

Wine Fest Group Shot

Just me, the besties, a long lost friend from high school, the seeester, and two moms who, wouldn’t you know, were “resting” while this picture was taken.

Wine Fest Group Selfie

Tent to tent we went…photobombers not to lament.

Wine Fest with the Besties

Taking the time we sipped the wine and had fun in the summer sun.

Wine Fest Sister Selfie

Not all the chicks got loving licks…though I say, I really cannot boast

Wine Fest Mom Selfie

For after five hours, this Heather Powers was a little more than toast[ed]!

This little limerick brought to you by another good night’s sleep and waaaaaay too much time on my hands while waiting for Jason to wake up. Hmm, perhaps I should consider a career change? 😉

But seriously, we all had a blast. It was SO good to spend the whole day with my favorite ladies sharing laughs, making memories, and…learning lessons?

Wine Fest Loot

Like how next year, there WILL BE A BUDGET! 😯

So I got a little carried away with the swipey swipey. Funny how after a few drinks you start thinking that the plastic gods just shine down and provide you with an unlimited amount of money, huh? And how about my wine club order will arrive any day now?! Anyone care to come over and help me further my state of denial?

Bring cheese…and pretzels!

Have you ever been to a wine festival?

What is your favorite kind of wine?
I’m usually more of a semi-sweet/off-dry drinker, but I surprised myself by liking a lot of the sweeter wines that day.

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Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas

Celebrate the day right by serving up these Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas, stuffed with two “hidden” vegetables that will have even the pickiest eater asking for more!

Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas - Celebrate Cinco de Mayo right by serving up some extra veggies...no one but you has to know! Recipe at www.kissmybroccoliblog.com

Happy Cinco de Mayo, everyone!

Would you believe me if I told you it’s all by chance that this recipe went up today? Honestly, I’ve just had a hankering for these for a weeks now and well, since I’m not a fan of the traditional red sauce served at the restaurants, I knew I’d have to do it myself!

Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas via www.kissmybroccoliblog.com - Hot & cheesy, you'd never guess how many vegetables are stuffed inside!

My mother passed down to me her mouth-watering enchilada recipe when I went away to college. I made it a handful of times and it was always a crowd pleaser, but that was it…it served a CROWD! Yep, without precaution, we Powers women fall victim to our cafeteria lady syndrome. It really can be a dangerous matter…like when you’re faced with polishing off eight to ten enchiladas by yourself. 😯

Nowadays, I know I can freeze the leftovers, but well…there’s really not much room in there right now with all the soup and cornbread. So…taking all that into consideration PLUS the fact that I’m always trying to find new ways to get Jason to eat more vegetables, I decided to conduct a little kitchen experiment:

Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas via www.kissmybroccoliblog.com - Even the pickiest of eaters will have a hard time saying no to this one!

Just HOW many veggies can I cram in here before he really notices? 😉

The answer? A lot! One thing I love about tomato-based recipes is that you really can sneak in a lot of veggies without even tasting a difference. Knowing that, I ransacked the pantry and the fridge and this is what I got…

With these Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas, you can serve up two servings of veggies and no one would even guess! Get the recipe at www.kissmybroccoliblog.com

A perfectly seasoned enchilada stuffed with beef, mushrooms, onions, tomatoes, CARROTS and PUMPKIN!! Top those babies with a bit of salsa and guacamole and you got yourself a whole mound of veggies!

Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas

By: Heather @ Kiss My Broccoli

Prep Time: 10-15 minutes

Cook Time: 25-30 minutes

Keywords: bake saute entrée whole wheat tortilla pumpkin puree beef Cinco de Mayo Mexican

Ingredients (serves 4)

  • 1/2 pound lean ground beef*
  • 1 cup diced fresh mushrooms
  • 1/2 diced onions
  • 1/2 cup diced carrots
  • 1 clove garlic, minced
  • 1/2 can (14 oz.) diced tomatoes*
  • 1 10 oz. can enchilada sauce, halved
  • 1/2 cup pumpkin puree, halved
  • 1 Tbsp. ground cumin
  • 2 tsp. chili powder
  • 1 tsp garlic powder
  • 1/2 tsp onion powder
  • 1/8 teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • salt & pepper to taste
  • 4 whole wheat flour tortillas
  • 3/4 cup shredded Mexican blend cheese
  • Toppings: black olives, cilantro, Greek yogurt, guacamole, salsa

Instructions

1. Combine ground beef, mushrooms, onions, carrots, and garlic and cook until beef is browned and vegetables are tender (approx. 5-6 minutes)
2. Add diced tomatoes, 1/2 can enchilada sauce, 1/4 cup pumpkin puree, and spices.
3. Lower heat and simmer for 10 minutes.
4. Preheat oven to 350°F.
5. Combine other half of enchilada sauce with 1/4 cup pumpkin puree and, using half the mixture, coat the bottom of a small baking dish, reserving the rest.
6. Divide beef and veggie mixture evenly and scoop into each tortilla.
7. Place stuffed enchiladas in baking dish seam side down and drizzle reserved sauce over top.
8. Top with shredded cheese and black olives (if using).
9. Bake for 10-12 minutes or until cheese is melted and tortilla edges are crisp.
10. Allow to cool 5-10 minutes before serving. Top with plain Greek yogurt, guacamole, salsa, and cilantro.

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*Note: If you’re wondering what to do with the other 1/2 pound of ground beef and the rest of the can of tomatoes, just throw ’em both in a skillet!\. Season with some cumin, chili powder, garlic, salt, and pepper and mix yourself up some taco meat! Then you’ve got the start to nachos, taco salad, or well, just straight up taco meat straight if you’re hangry in a pinch. 😉

These Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas are stuffed with beef, mushrooms, and TWO hidden veggies and will have even the pickiest eaters asking for more! www.kissmybroccoliblog.com

So I served these up to Jason for dinner over the weekend…without telling him of my evil plan about the extra veggies and you wanna know what he said? “I like that it’s not just meat inside.” Mark it on the calendar folks, my meat and potatoes man is eating veggies! Now for my next trick…going meatless! But we’ll save that for another day. Don’t wanna get ahead of ourselves now.

Happy Cinco de Mayo! Celebrate by serving up some Sneaky Veggie Enchiladas for dinner and get even your pickiest eaters to eat their veggies! www.kissmybroccoliblog.com

Besides, don’t we all have a couple of margaritas to find today? 😉

What’s your favorite Mexican dish?

Are you a frozen or on the rocks margarita drinker?
No brain freeze for me. I’ll take mine on the rocks!

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Navigating a Toxic Workplace: Signs and Solutions

A healthy work environment is essential for employee well-being, productivity, and job satisfaction. However, not all workplaces provide that supportive atmosphere. Some environments become toxic, where negativity, poor communication, and even abusive behaviors become the norm. A toxic workplace can drain your energy, diminish your enthusiasm, and affect your mental health. Recognizing the signs of a toxic work environment and knowing how to address them is crucial to protecting yourself and making informed decisions about your career.

In this article, we’ll explore the warning signs of a toxic workplace and offer practical solutions to help you navigate and, if necessary, escape such environments.

Signs of a Toxic Workplace

Toxic workplaces can vary in their specific traits, but they generally have a few common characteristics that affect employees’ well-being and productivity. Here are some of the most telling signs that your workplace may be toxic:

1. Poor Communication

In a toxic workplace, communication is often unclear, infrequent, or passive-aggressive. Important information may be withheld, miscommunicated, or shared only with certain people. This leads to confusion, frustration, and a lack of trust among employees. In such environments, employees may feel left out of important decisions or uncertain about their roles.

2. Constant Drama or Conflict

Frequent drama, gossip, and interpersonal conflict are key indicators of a toxic work environment. When employees regularly pit themselves against each other or when management fosters competition instead of teamwork, the result is an atmosphere of tension and hostility. Instead of collaborating to achieve goals, employees may become more focused on protecting themselves or undermining others.

3. Lack of Support from Management

In a toxic workplace, employees often feel unsupported or undervalued by management. Managers may fail to provide clear direction, offer constructive feedback, or acknowledge employees’ hard work. When management does not provide the resources or support needed to succeed, employees are left feeling demoralized and disengaged.

4. Micromanagement

Micromanagement can stifle creativity and create an oppressive work environment. When managers constantly hover over employees, scrutinizing every decision and task, it erodes trust and autonomy. This style of management suggests a lack of confidence in employees’ abilities and undermines their potential.

5. Bullying, Harassment, or Discrimination

One of the most serious signs of a toxic workplace is bullying, harassment, or discriminatory behavior. This could be verbal abuse, intimidation, or unfair treatment based on race, gender, sexual orientation, age, or other characteristics. If you are experiencing harassment or are aware of others being mistreated, this is a clear indication that the workplace is toxic and potentially dangerous for employees’ mental and emotional well-being.

Solutions for Dealing with a Toxic Workplace

If you recognize these signs in your workplace, it’s important to take steps to protect yourself and address the situation. Here are some strategies you can implement to navigate and mitigate the effects of a toxic work environment:

1. Set Boundaries

In toxic workplaces, employees often feel overworked, underappreciated, and constantly on call. To protect yourself from burnout, it’s crucial to set clear boundaries between your work and personal life. Be firm about your availability, and don’t feel pressured to respond to non-urgent work matters during your personal time. Establishing boundaries can help you maintain a healthier work-life balance, even in difficult environments.

2. Document Everything

If you are dealing with inappropriate behavior, unclear expectations, or unfair treatment, start documenting everything. Keep a record of emails, conversations, incidents, and any examples of inappropriate behavior or decisions made by management. This documentation can be crucial if you need to escalate the issue or take legal action later.

3. Communicate Your Concerns

Sometimes, toxic behaviors or poor communication are the result of unintentional missteps or misunderstandings. If you feel comfortable doing so, address the issue with the person involved. Use “I” statements to express your concerns and offer constructive suggestions. For example, “I feel that our team could benefit from clearer communication about project deadlines. Can we find a better way to keep everyone informed?”

However, if the problem persists or involves harassment or bullying, it’s essential to take further action by escalating the issue.

4. File a Complaint with HR

If your workplace’s toxicity stems from harassment, discrimination, or bullying, it’s important to formally report the behavior. Filing a complaint with HR due to harassment can help initiate an investigation and hold those responsible accountable for their actions. HR departments are legally required to address complaints of harassment and take appropriate steps to resolve the issue.

When reporting to HR, provide the documentation you’ve collected and be as specific as possible about the incidents, dates, and individuals involved. Filing a complaint is a crucial step toward creating a safer and more respectful work environment, both for yourself and for your colleagues.

5. Seek External Support

In some cases, internal processes may not fully resolve the problem, especially if management or HR is part of the issue. If you find that your complaints are being ignored or if the situation worsens after filing a complaint, consider seeking external support. This may involve consulting with an employment lawyer, contacting the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), or exploring other legal avenues to protect your rights.

6. Consider a Change

Unfortunately, some toxic workplaces cannot be fixed, no matter how much you try to address the issues. If your mental and emotional well-being is suffering and the toxicity is persistent, it may be time to consider finding a new job. While leaving can feel daunting, especially if you’ve been with the company for a long time, your health and happiness are more important than staying in an unhealthy environment.

Before leaving, try to secure another position or build a financial cushion, so the transition is as smooth as possible. Ultimately, a fresh start in a healthier workplace can lead to better job satisfaction and peace of mind.

Navigating a toxic workplace can be challenging, but recognizing the signs and taking proactive steps can help you protect yourself and your career.

While not all toxic workplaces can be fixed, knowing your options and prioritizing your well-being will empower you to make the best decisions for your future. If the situation becomes unbearable, consider seeking external support or exploring new opportunities in a healthier work environment. No job is worth sacrificing your mental health and well-being.

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